Mr. May

It was many years ago that I first laid eyes on Mr. May -- back in my days of watching the soap opera The Young & The Restless. Eddie Cibrian played the part of a bad young man named Matt who did some very devious things. This naughtily delicious man paid his dues and faded from the show -- never to be seen again on Y&R.

Now, this 6' 2", 35-year-old Gemini is back in my thoughts with a vengeance. Mr. May is a Cuban-American actor that any man-o-philic person can appreciate. From his lovely dimples on down to his shoes, Mr. May provides delicious candy for the wandering eye. (I'll let the pictures tell all)

Mr. May is a rather interesting man once you peel away the outer looks. Aside from an alleged affair with LeAnn Rhimes, perhaps his stint as one of the 3-member boy band 3Deep is an even tastier tidbit. Come on, 3Deep? I'm wet already.... anyway, it's been 10 years since their debut album "Yes Yes Yes... No No No".

This 1999 album featured their hit single Into You. (Now, I'm really drooling...) Nevertheless, the band wasn't as well-known here in the States as it was in Canada and other countries; if you were a follower of the soap opera Y&R, you'd definitely know Mr. May and his fellow 3Deep band member, Joshua Morrow.

So Mr. May has sex appeal... that much is apparent. Finding substance in a hottie can be a bit more challenging; for Eddie, it's there. For one, I can appreciate a romantic from time to time, and my knees stirred like soup when I read that Mr. May proposed to his lover Brandi Glanville just a few seconds before the turn of the millennium.

A man with an education is also something to appreciate, as Mr. May attended UCLA and majored in Business and Economics. He is also involved in several charities such as the Make-A-Wish Foundation.

Some other notables about Mr. May is that he enjoys football, tennis, golf, and basketball. His list of filmography includes the TV series, "Third Watch" (1999-2005), "Invasion" (2005-2006), ""Criminal Minds" (2007), and "Ugly Betty" (2008).

Mr. May -- Eddie Cibrian

What Would I Do With This Man? (Week 2)

Mmmm.. it's manly Monday again, and my mind shifts to my second installment of "What Would I Do With This Man?" Lots of goodies going on as I dream about being in a hypothetical tight spot with a celebrity male of my choosing. Tomorrow begins a new era for the United States of America, as George Bush lifts off in a helicopter and President Barack Obama settles into the driver's seat. Nevertheless, this historic moment is powerless to shift my attention from my next fantasy man.

Here I lie in my bed; off from work; staring at the ceiling with a broadening smile. Last week, in my hypothetical situation, I was stuck on Mt. Lindsay braving a snowstorm with sexy actor Jensen Ackles. It was a wonderful way to end a string of brutal graveyard shifts at work. But now, my brain is kicking into overdrive in order to deliver images of my next difficult situation, and I'm ready to respond with my celebrity companion of choice.

I can see it now -- water. Lots of water. The temperature is warm, and I can hear the sound of waves crashing up against the rocks nearby. The air carries the faint smell of fish and saltwater. I was lying on the sandy beach of some island, and I looked in all directions to see if there was anyone else. Ahhh, there was. About 100 yards away, there he was, shimmying up a tree to collect some tropical fruit. It was my fantasy celebrity man, clad with a tight, white t-shirt and nice-fitting distressed jeans.

I rose to my feet and began walking towards him when all of a sudden, dozens of natives emerged from the trees... adorned with war paint and armed with spears. My companion descended the tree with lightning speed and was standing side-by-side with me before I knew it. And who might this celebrity stud be? One of my personal favorites: Shemar Moore

Why Shemar? Mmm.. glad you asked. You see, a long time ago, back in the 90s, I started watching this guy on a popular soap opera known as The Young and the Restless. Shemar has mentioned that he hates playing roles that deviate from his actual personality, which is good... because one thing I didn't detect in his character was a quick temper.

In fact, in the world of gay dating, I believe that is a very good practice -- avoid deviating from your true self. Besides, I've learned from my past that I tend not to get along with hotheads, because I require something a bit more stable than a powder keg... especially in a tight spot like this.

Yes, indeed. Shemar would certainly do well in this situation. The fact that, like me, he doesn't really like guns reinforces my belief that if this stud was in backed into a corner, he'd at least have a clue how to start diffusing a problem before it gets out of control. He negotiates first, then uses his athleticism to go down fighting if he has to -- side-by-side with me. I'd certainly feel confident that if these island natives got violent, Shemar wouldn't tuck tail and run.

Once the issue is resolved, I'd be the first to taste his tropical fruits.